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How To increase your SELF-CONFIDENT and SELF-ESTEEM

Hello guys! since my nature is more on writting, so here you go..
Confident? What is that?

Today's talk is about "self-confident"   Being confident is a personal journey
its means with faith.
everyone is on the different path.. The tips im giving to you are universal. its gonna help jumpstart your journey.

 1-Remember the confident is like a mental muscles
-think positive thought.. so take a deep breath and reminds yourself that life is too short.
- you wanna have a healthy habit of maintaining this mental muscles, but also dont wanna over do it,  everything in moderation , balance is key :)
2-Find Your Qualities
-instead of foccusing on the negative which i know can be hurt, FOCUS ON THE POSITIVE and it doesnt have to be in physical . No one  is perfect than everything, And we all made to be perfectly imperfect. Just like the crystal ... it's look nice but the particle in it doesnt fix so well, its not perfectly cut like a flowers diamond but its beautiful and its way
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And when you dont thinking like you dont have a qualities, just simply ask yourself, " what am i good at?" everyone is good at something , and when you dont know its where it is , well take this oppurtunity to find it ... sign up for cooking classes , paining classess, learn how to sing, play sports , you have to coop with your passion and nurture it . this help brings the real you
 3-Have a Buddy system
- essentially everyone is in the same journey, find someone you can trust who you can share your insecurity with :) its feels good to bend it out and just to get it off  your chest as well as taking to your true friend :) and if you feels like you dont have anyone to talk to , just go online , i mean , that kind of the beauty of the digital world , you can go on there , and be yourself .
4- Pass your wisdom and gift onto others
- teaching, mentoring and caring for others is great of gift you can give to others and yourself. Now only is other person gonna feel better but you will too ." LOVING OTHERS WILL INSPIRE YOU TO LOVE YOURSELF " and you know what, this journey is not gonna be easy, there's gonna be time when you're gonna feel give up, youre gonna feels lost , you can't continue to walk further down this journey , and you have to reminds yourself that ' if u want to built self-confident, you have to #stay positive , " Thats the key
You are perfectly imperfect!
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